Non-forgiveness and guiltiness may haunt your heart
Nice greetings to our readers! We hope you had a great night or great day. Honestly we're glad to get back to you and it's all our pleasure. What we're gonna share with you is very precious to us. You just read the title, right? We feel committed to share this message for anyone suffering from non-forgiveness and guiltiness. We are pretty sure those two bad ghosts are haunting some people. So this is dedicated especially to this category, whether they're youngsters or adults or even for the old ones. In this article, we wish to show you that most of the time, when you're feeling bad, it might be due to non-forgiveness and guiltiness, and then we'll give you examples of situations that can trigger those things in your heart.
Ok. You're just not at your best lately. You kind of complaining about something in your heart, but you didn't directly underlined the cause, though you know it deep inside of you. Even when no one has done anything to you today, you feel this way sometimes. In your thought, surely, you draw scenes and actions of pain, sadness, loneliness, quarrels, fights, and so on... Some people have their awareness completely raised about the reasons and the facts that lead to this mental behavior, and simply don't focus on it. But others, weirdly, just don't exactly know or don't have the ability to focus and find it out. Particularly, that's where we're gonna land regarding the topic.
It's not a rocket science. You feel bad, cause of something bad. Bad facts trigger bad feelings. But in addition, you're frustrated, stressed out, and inside of you, you're complaining. It happens you're loosing motivation, and don't feel like doing anything. Sometimes, you just can't stand the presence of the others or someone especially, you wanna stay alone. Or specifically, you can't look at someone else' eyes. Most of the time you have a grudge against someone. In such case, you exactly know why. Otherwise, you got those feelings for many reasons, cause of things that happened long ago in the past or just earlier for instance.
Where we wanna get is : whether you're the victim or the guilty, you got to do something to get rid of your load. The victim has to forgive and the guilty apologizes and begs forgiveness. If they don't do that, they will go through the same feelings that you just read above. They'll always feel bad especially.
Here are some major facts that might make non-forgiveness and guiltiness haunt your heart.
Let's start with non-forgiveness. In general, we don't forgive cause someone did something really bad to us. There are things that we can forget. But other things are so bad that we by no means accept to cover them by forgiveness. Imagine your wife just cheated on you. Well, as a man you won't accept that, and that'll be really difficult for you to forgive such thing. It's just the same for a woman whose husband cheated on. In such case, you exactly know why non-forgiveness is haunting your heart. But maybe you just prefer to let it go. Another situation is when you've been bullied by some neighbor, insulted, underestimated, neglected, whatever... In fact, you'll always know why you don't forgive. But what is uncertain is when, after so very long time, those things silently create bad feelings now and then. And you take it for granted because it's the past. You think it shouldn't matter so far.
On the other side, you feel guiltiness. Surely because you've done something bad to someone. You'll always feel guilty because you didn't apologize or you did but didn't gain forgiveness. The fact is that the victim didn't forgive you, so you're kind of really uncomfortable. And as long as you don't apologize or don't receive forgiveness you feel just bad.
All in all, we urge you to be aware of your inner feelings, that you exactly know what is subject to trouble in your heart. In fact, there are so many things that can make someone feel bad. But we just wanted to focus on non-forgiveness and guiltiness.
Some people, when you ask them if they really forgave their partner, they say yes. That might be the truth, but it remains skeptical. Only the person can tell. They could still hold the grudge against their neighbor. And even after several years, that grudge could be alive just because you think more of the past. On the other side, you could be guilty of something as we talked about earlier.
When you feel something, learn to know where does that come from. Next time, we wish to talk about the bad consequences of those feelings in the aim of encouraging you to get away from them. Hope you enjoyed reading this. Thank you.
Ok. You're just not at your best lately. You kind of complaining about something in your heart, but you didn't directly underlined the cause, though you know it deep inside of you. Even when no one has done anything to you today, you feel this way sometimes. In your thought, surely, you draw scenes and actions of pain, sadness, loneliness, quarrels, fights, and so on... Some people have their awareness completely raised about the reasons and the facts that lead to this mental behavior, and simply don't focus on it. But others, weirdly, just don't exactly know or don't have the ability to focus and find it out. Particularly, that's where we're gonna land regarding the topic.
It's not a rocket science. You feel bad, cause of something bad. Bad facts trigger bad feelings. But in addition, you're frustrated, stressed out, and inside of you, you're complaining. It happens you're loosing motivation, and don't feel like doing anything. Sometimes, you just can't stand the presence of the others or someone especially, you wanna stay alone. Or specifically, you can't look at someone else' eyes. Most of the time you have a grudge against someone. In such case, you exactly know why. Otherwise, you got those feelings for many reasons, cause of things that happened long ago in the past or just earlier for instance.
Where we wanna get is : whether you're the victim or the guilty, you got to do something to get rid of your load. The victim has to forgive and the guilty apologizes and begs forgiveness. If they don't do that, they will go through the same feelings that you just read above. They'll always feel bad especially.
Here are some major facts that might make non-forgiveness and guiltiness haunt your heart.
Let's start with non-forgiveness. In general, we don't forgive cause someone did something really bad to us. There are things that we can forget. But other things are so bad that we by no means accept to cover them by forgiveness. Imagine your wife just cheated on you. Well, as a man you won't accept that, and that'll be really difficult for you to forgive such thing. It's just the same for a woman whose husband cheated on. In such case, you exactly know why non-forgiveness is haunting your heart. But maybe you just prefer to let it go. Another situation is when you've been bullied by some neighbor, insulted, underestimated, neglected, whatever... In fact, you'll always know why you don't forgive. But what is uncertain is when, after so very long time, those things silently create bad feelings now and then. And you take it for granted because it's the past. You think it shouldn't matter so far.
On the other side, you feel guiltiness. Surely because you've done something bad to someone. You'll always feel guilty because you didn't apologize or you did but didn't gain forgiveness. The fact is that the victim didn't forgive you, so you're kind of really uncomfortable. And as long as you don't apologize or don't receive forgiveness you feel just bad.
All in all, we urge you to be aware of your inner feelings, that you exactly know what is subject to trouble in your heart. In fact, there are so many things that can make someone feel bad. But we just wanted to focus on non-forgiveness and guiltiness.
Some people, when you ask them if they really forgave their partner, they say yes. That might be the truth, but it remains skeptical. Only the person can tell. They could still hold the grudge against their neighbor. And even after several years, that grudge could be alive just because you think more of the past. On the other side, you could be guilty of something as we talked about earlier.
When you feel something, learn to know where does that come from. Next time, we wish to talk about the bad consequences of those feelings in the aim of encouraging you to get away from them. Hope you enjoyed reading this. Thank you.
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