Parents and Teens are annoying : What's the problem?

Hey! What's up everyone? I'm back with a new and very important topic. Today, I'd like to focus on parents and teens especially. Long ago we'd often heard of relationship issues between parents and their teens. And so far, it remains the same and it even got more chronic. There are specific and tremendous reasons why parents always can't stand their teens, and teens their parents. But I just unwrapped 4 reasons for you. Let's find them out together.

1. Your bad-temper as a teen

Most people don't like bad tempered people. No matter how bad-tempered they are, they will never utterly stand bad-tempered people. So if you're this kind of person, no wonder you'll get the dislike button. What could be your bad attitudes? They are so much. But let's present just a few.

          When rules in a family are broken, it provokes quarrels. If you never want to respect orders, what they require, what they would like you to do, certainly there'll be distortion between you and your parents. So, are you a kind child? And how a kind child must be like? I know how boring it is to be always facing rules. Sometimes, they ask you to do something you don't like or don't want yet. Kind of, let's go visit your aunt, grandma, etc... today, tough it wasn't listed in your schedule. You might have something else to do, that could even be very urgent, but don't know how to explain yourself, how to convince them. You have to face it anyway. Cause not all parents understand. So what I recommend most, is talk to them about your case, and if they disagree, go with them visit your aunt, grandma or whatever. So as I mentioned earlier, what kind of child are you like. Are you a night teenager? That comes back home at 3 or 4 in the morning, when you know mom and dad don't like that? Are you an angry teen, who hates good advice, and never take the time to analyse? Are you doing bad traffics to make money? Are you leading a wrong sexual relationship? Or do you have a confused sexual life? In fact, these are the few bad things parents don't like about teens cause we have tremendous defects.

          Following rules doesn't mean you're not allowed to enjoy. If any rule says that, erase it. Cause we can enjoy and harmonize with the rules your parents establish. For it is said in Ephesians 6 vs 2,3 : Children, obey your parents for this is right. Honor your father and mother, which is the first commandment with a promise - So that it may go well with you and that you enjoy long life on earth. But it's also said : Fathers, do not exasperate your children, instead, bring them up in the training and instruction of the Lord. Instead of hanging out all night, create your free time during the day and hang out if possible. Analyse the advises they give you and take a decision. Set your sexual life, cause believe it or not, there might be bad consequences. Work hard to make money, and worth it. Generally, parents want us to be good examples. So certainly, your bad-temper will disturb.

2. My parents are not worthy

If you parents wish to gain respect, obedience, and attention, you must be right, worthy, a good example to your teens. Don't severely command when you're out of rule. It's gonna sound boring, annoying. Teens carefully keep eyes on their parents. They look at what they do, and more deeply, analyse their heart. First, are you doing wrong things? Are you always angry for anything? Do you try to understand a bit? Do you always suspect evil from your teen? Do you trust them?

          If children also see defects in you, then they'll always be reluctant to respect your rules. It's automatic in every teenager or young adult boy or girl. So make sure you're also good-temper, so you can freely set rules.

3. Jealousy

There's something I don't wanna say but I dare to say it. It's rare that children are jealous of their parents. But most parents are jealous of their children. So are you jealous? And why?

          If yes, you need to fix it out. If not, you'll never feel comfortable with your children. And they will feel your jealousy. They will feel it when you impose, criticize, and often quarrel. This feeling breaks the good relationship you and your children could have. And it'll get worst when you manifest that feeling pushing and beating your child. For it is said in Ephesians 6 vs 4 : Parents, don't exasperate. Instead, bring them up in the training and instructions of the Lord. So if you wish to have a quiet relationship with your teens, you know what to do.

4. Lack of communication

Communication is a must in a family. It brings joy, ease, and love. Moreover, when parents communicate more with their teens or young adults, they will easily understand them. Their interest, taste, desire, intention etc... Where the communication is very fluent, less are quarrels. So, parents, make sure you communicate more with your children. Do it as soon as possible before it is a bit too late. Don't let them grow up first. Cause you're the leaders, and it's at you above all, to take a decision.  

                   

          There'd be even more points to list when it comes to relationship issues between parents and teens. But if we take into account those four points listed above, there can be a way to figure it out. Let's try to meditate, and see if it wasn't we, in the mirror, when reading. Neither parents, nor teens and young adults might be the problem. All of them might have to change their temper. Big thanks for reading. Bye.