Why kids and teens must submit themselves
Last time, for the " Parenting " category, it was " How to stop quarreling with them ". We did propose techniques to avoid quarrels. And even here, it might still be difficult for some kids and teens. So today, in the same category, we just wrote for you an article, that we think could be source of motivation. Not only to the purpose of " How to stop quarreling with them ", but also specifically taking the title above into account. We won't be showing you how they should submit themselves to parents, but instead, why should they submit themselves. In this article, we just aim at showing you how precious parents are and how much they deserve submission from kids and teens. In other words, we wish to wake consciences up about that matter.
Life is divided by different steps we all have to fulfill. We were just born, then we learned our first step, grew up, and did everything any man or women would do. But the question is : who was with you along that process? For most of us, it was our parents who really cared for us, and naturally dedicated their time for us. We know some kids didn't have the chance to have parents holding their hands when they were baby. But for those who did have a father or a mother, they have no excuse to make. Among parents, a mother plays such a crucial role. They really know how to take care of a baby and they are gifted for that. Firstly, she's the milk provider, and knows a good list of recipes that a baby can handle. What is really great about a mother is that she dedicates her time. She sleeps a bit and make sure that she wakes up once you cry out the night. She's not also afraid to take the worst responsibility. Which is to clean you up when you just got dirty. Now when we talk about mother it's about mothers all around the world. Depending on the culture, the country, economy and social rank, mothers have to meet their responsibilities. Some mother never stops taking their kids to school and from school despite the difficulties they have with means of transport. Not only they don't stop doing it but they do it with remarkable courage and strength. And again, they care for your cleanness before you go to school. And let's say she's a wealthy mother, that she takes you to school by car, she won't forget you and will make sure to pick you up on time. A mother is careful.
If your mother did all this, your father surely did other things. Most of them do their best to provide food basically. And their task is even heavier than that. Imagine they live in the United States with their kids and wife. Not only they have to satisfy their needs, but also, they think about bills they have to pay. So as a man, a father always feels committed to work as hard as they can especially for their family. Even when it's about a family where the woman does work as well, the man always gives himself a higher challenge. And again, as we just mentioned about a mother, depending on the culture, country, economy and social rank, fathers have to meet their responsibilities. In Haiti for example, most women tend to rely on their man. That is to say, they would rather focus on chore activities (clean up the house, make the dishes, make the laundry, cook etc...), take care of their man and wait that the man bring some food and money basically. The few women who have some occupation sell products and food on some sidewalk or corner. But the rest of them focus on chore activities. Women who do work as well as their husband are rare. So that fact made men's tasks even more difficult. They have to work hard to satisfy their wife and their kids in many point of view, and it get exhausting even if there's no bill to pay. Fathers in general think about social rank, economy, and education. And know that some father does not neglect time. They will do their best to meet those things as much as they can.
Kids and teens must submit themselves to parents, not because parents are always good. But because we can't deny they dedicated their time and worked hard for you. For those who are orphans, with no parents, it's another complex case (which we'll have to talk about soon).
Even when your parents aren't good to you, just think about all those sacrifices they made for you. Each time you will think about them, they will be like a source motivation. A motivation so you can keep obeying, respecting and loving your parents. Anyone is not always perfect. So it's good to rather put the right profile on the foreground instead of the wrong one. And know that life is short. So you better love them right away before they go.
Life is divided by different steps we all have to fulfill. We were just born, then we learned our first step, grew up, and did everything any man or women would do. But the question is : who was with you along that process? For most of us, it was our parents who really cared for us, and naturally dedicated their time for us. We know some kids didn't have the chance to have parents holding their hands when they were baby. But for those who did have a father or a mother, they have no excuse to make. Among parents, a mother plays such a crucial role. They really know how to take care of a baby and they are gifted for that. Firstly, she's the milk provider, and knows a good list of recipes that a baby can handle. What is really great about a mother is that she dedicates her time. She sleeps a bit and make sure that she wakes up once you cry out the night. She's not also afraid to take the worst responsibility. Which is to clean you up when you just got dirty. Now when we talk about mother it's about mothers all around the world. Depending on the culture, the country, economy and social rank, mothers have to meet their responsibilities. Some mother never stops taking their kids to school and from school despite the difficulties they have with means of transport. Not only they don't stop doing it but they do it with remarkable courage and strength. And again, they care for your cleanness before you go to school. And let's say she's a wealthy mother, that she takes you to school by car, she won't forget you and will make sure to pick you up on time. A mother is careful.
If your mother did all this, your father surely did other things. Most of them do their best to provide food basically. And their task is even heavier than that. Imagine they live in the United States with their kids and wife. Not only they have to satisfy their needs, but also, they think about bills they have to pay. So as a man, a father always feels committed to work as hard as they can especially for their family. Even when it's about a family where the woman does work as well, the man always gives himself a higher challenge. And again, as we just mentioned about a mother, depending on the culture, country, economy and social rank, fathers have to meet their responsibilities. In Haiti for example, most women tend to rely on their man. That is to say, they would rather focus on chore activities (clean up the house, make the dishes, make the laundry, cook etc...), take care of their man and wait that the man bring some food and money basically. The few women who have some occupation sell products and food on some sidewalk or corner. But the rest of them focus on chore activities. Women who do work as well as their husband are rare. So that fact made men's tasks even more difficult. They have to work hard to satisfy their wife and their kids in many point of view, and it get exhausting even if there's no bill to pay. Fathers in general think about social rank, economy, and education. And know that some father does not neglect time. They will do their best to meet those things as much as they can.
Kids and teens must submit themselves to parents, not because parents are always good. But because we can't deny they dedicated their time and worked hard for you. For those who are orphans, with no parents, it's another complex case (which we'll have to talk about soon).
Even when your parents aren't good to you, just think about all those sacrifices they made for you. Each time you will think about them, they will be like a source motivation. A motivation so you can keep obeying, respecting and loving your parents. Anyone is not always perfect. So it's good to rather put the right profile on the foreground instead of the wrong one. And know that life is short. So you better love them right away before they go.
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