Why my parents disapprove my choice?

To those struggling with disapproval, refusal, and rejection about something, know that there are reasons for that. You really like something and wish to go into it, but you're misunderstood and disapproved by your parents. You liked the thing at first, right? But this time you like it more when the others disapprove it. That's just the way we are by nature. The fact that your parents specifically put the red on your choice isn't a random. In this article, we'll give you three basic reasons, though there are plenty of others.

1. It's just a bad option

Well. Let's face it. You might love something really bad. Parents know what's good for you and they wish you the best. So if you'd like, for instance, to go into lottery all the time, they might don't like that. Though it's not always the case because some parents don't have that same vision. But for those who dream big, they will surely want you to do something of greater value. There are many other bad options young people could take. Such as drugs, prostitution, theft, whatever the bad thing it might be. That's what we call bad option. An option which is not a good example for the society.

2. Your behavior

Your behavior plays a great role in that. In any family, relationship is important. So the question is, what kind of relationship you have with your parents. Are you a bad child? Do you often get nervous? Do you employ vulgar words? All these questions to say that the way you are with the others will affect the way they will be with you. There are tremendous of bad qualities. Here we mentioned just a few. Let's say for example that you focus on yourself only, and that you never think of having a good relationship with your parents. And beside of it, you present very bad defects. Kind of you scream out, you don't like conversation, you're just bad tempered. And one day your parents just discovered that you wanted to go into architecture. Yes it's a good thing! What? It isn't drug, theft, prostitution, or anything else. But because you don't harmonize with your parents, your choice has been disapproved. Not that they really disapprove it. But as they don't like your temper, they automatically don't encourage you at all.

3. Jealousy

When it comes to jealousy the disapproval is fake. They don't disapprove because of your behavior, neither because it's a bad option. But because they might be jealous of you. This issue is difficult to avoid cause you can't have control over anyone's heart. They're just jealous of you, it's inevitable. No matter how good you may be with someone, it won't prevent this to happen.

In this article we put out three major reasons why your parents might disapprove your choice. Next time, for this respective category, we wish to propose some techniques that will help you gain your parents approval about your choice, taking into account these points above. I hope you appreciated this opinion. Please, don't forget to leave a comment when necessary, and also, follow us.