7 signs you might be a good husband

Being a good husband is not easy. Most husbands have some or various defects that often lead to divorce. Basically, couples get divorced because one of the partners has cheated on the other. But apart of it, divorce can be claimed due to tremendous simple or complicated reasons. Maybe some young man doesn’t desire to sleep with the same woman every day. Yes, it can be. But surely, others just prefer that lifestyle. So they will likely get marry. But as you know, marriage brings happy and trouble moment. And the reason it goes this way is because we have good and bad behavior. So how can we benefit happier than trouble moment in marriage? In this article we propose 7 signs for a good husband, though having those qualities doesn't mean you'll definitely be a good husband, unless you never change in the future. But we dare to say these signs are 80 % effective. These signs manifest even before your marriage. So be careful.

1. Obey and love your mother

Certainly, you're surrounded by people you know very. Whether they are just your friends or more particularly your family, they are with you sometimes or all the time. Now the thing is, how are you with them. Let's start by focusing on you and your mother. How do you react when she asks you to do something for her? Are you most of the time reluctant? If so, it's not a good sign. Well, your mother is and will always be your mother. But the way you behave with her is the way you would with your wife a few years later in your marriage. You might think that will be different with your wife cause she gives you different attention and affection, but you don't realize you simply have those defects no matter who the person you're with. The fact is that, you're so accustomed with her that you no longer pay attention. Not only this. But are you used to shouting on her? Or even beat her? If you always obey and love your mother that might be a good sign.

2. Pay attention to conversation

Can you handle a conversation? If yes, that's great! One of the biggest challenge about a conversation is focus. Sometimes, you struggle to focus cause you're lost in what's flashing through your mind, right in the moment they're talking to you. Besides, your interlocutor may ask you : do you see what I mean? And you say : ah... Yeah...

          But in truth, you were absent minded. If you hardly focus on a conversation, then it will be the same in the future if you take it for granted. In that case, you need to do that exercise : when someone talks to you, listen to them patiently and carefully. But if you can pay attention to any conversation, whether you're interested or not, and give feedback, it's good sign.

3. Manage your time for others

Very busy, but always creates a free time for others. You accept to make the sacrifice of finishing your activities as soon as possible, so you can get together with your friends or family. It shows that you pay attention to relationship.

4. Supportive

You just like to encourage people. Help them go through trials, no matter what it is. You just like to support, it's your passion.

5. Loyal

Throughout your teenage life, before you get marry, you will always meet beautiful girls. And you might like them all. But see deeply if you are not the kind of guy who would be chasing many girls everyday. You'll notice that in your mind. Which category is more predominant in your thought?  Do you dream to date many girls? Otherwise, if you simply want only one girlfriend and wish to be happy with her and think that might satisfy you, chances are you'll be a good husband. Look at your mind and analyze. Do you like simple or complex sexual life? 

6. Acknowledge your mistakes

You don't find excuses but you admit your faults. No matter what you've done, you just have a courage to say: I'm sorry, forgive me. And deep inside of you, you feel it is urgent to do it. You kind of, won't feel good if you don't apologize. 

7. Dominant

Know that girl like being dominated. Passivity is the ideal in women nature. They get more aroused when they are under your domination, and they will love you more. But a passive man would not be effective in a relationship. Instead, have control over your wife, and don't give her the green all the time. Are you a passive man even before your marriage? 

Some defects we have does not easily leave us. We must think of being a good husband since even our teenage years. The way we are with our friends and family may be a preview of how we could be with our future wife. The 7 qualities that have been mentioned in this article are not 100% effective for a good husband in marriage. But in some way, our behavior, before marriage, can give us the definition of our profile in marriage relationship. Thank you for reading.