Why any parent is important
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We live in a world where
anything is under hierarchy. The king beyond the Prince, Queen beyond Princess,
President beyond people. It's like a universal law is ruling over us. In the
same way, there'll always and must be someone beyond someone in a family.
Parents beyond their kids, teens, or young adults. Certainly, there might be
some turbulence between those two parts (parents and children). But on the
other hand, there can be valuable moment. We're addressing to kids and
youngsters, still living with their parents, and facing some issues. We want
them to know that their parents, anyway, are very important in their life. In this article, we give you 4 reasons. See below.
1. They don't want you to
fall
Almost any parent
doesn't want you to fall. Even a somehow jealous parent who seems to desire
your failure, won't laugh at you when you fail. Cause when you're sad, he'll
realize how unpleasant it is to see you fail. The strange fact is that they
don't really want your failure. They just let jealousy and frustration confuse
their mind. But deeply, any parent wishes you success. When you get home with
such an unsatisfied face, they care for you and want to know what's going
wrong. Then they'll tend to automatically encourage you by saying everything
will go well. I don't mean any parent is like that, but almost any.
2. They gave you lessons
Not lessons you receive at school. But lessons of
life. Surely, they warned you not to do the mistakes they did. They express
themselves showing you how they regret not to have done what they should have
done. They tell you time is important and never waste it. They tell you how
they did to get where they are. Any parent does that work.
3. Example for hard work
and sacrifice
They instruct you in some kind of way. They do it when
they go to work every day, when they so care about the basic needs of the
family. Instead of putting their own needs in the foreground, they put yours.
They do it when spending time with the baby, and waking up every night when
they cry. And they do more than this. And even when they don't feel like doing
it, they do it. Now you know what is a parent like? Of course, you might be
doing the same thing in the future.
4. They help you mend
your way
There are various ways
to mend someone's way. Some parent uses hardness; others use sweet words.
Anyway, both of them has its importance. You might don't like when your parents
prevent you from going out somewhere or with someone, or all in all, when they
don't want you to do what you want. In certain case, they're wrong, cause some
decision you take might be good. But you don't always know whether they are
good or bad. For instance, if you dream to study something, and you know what
you want, then go ahead! Only be confident. Some decision you take is basic,
universal, and important. But let's say you want to go to some party, marry a
girl or a man, hang out with friends, know that some of those decisions might
be good or bad. So the best is, if your parents do not approve something,
deeply analyze and think, let your conscience talk to you and find the
response. In addition, ask 5 persons at least, their opinion about your
decision. The fact is that we never know when bad consequences comes up.
Sometimes our parents protect us from evil without realizing it. So you'd
rather let it go. Life does not always offer you what you wish. And know that
anything has a good side.
Your parents will always
play a great role in your life. You'll attest it and admit it yourself one day,
in public. Peace for all.
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