7 issues some young men need to face to have a girlfriend

For almost all men, having a girlfriend is something crucial. There's something innate in human beings that makes them desire importantly, love relationships. And that feeling becomes more urgent when you get close to adolescence. But not every young guy get to make that dream come true. And there are various reasons for that. So in this article, I'd like to list 7 main issues that young men have to face to have a girlfriend.

1. You still live with your parents

Certainly, you like freedom and self-intimacy. It won't be easy as a,b,c , if you still live with your parents. When you know you have parents keeping eyes on you, or that the policy family says that love stories imply sacred commitment, then you'll want to pay attention, and you'll hesitate each time the opportunity comes to you. I'm not saying that parents don't want their son(s) to have a girlfriend. But in some kind of way, they indirectly trigger fear in them.

2. School or professional activities

They think school or professional activities have something to do with that. If you're married to your studies, job, and career, and think a love story might a bit disturb, then you're not ready. Some young men are afraid of life in common. They're maybe afraid of girls that might not go to the same wavelength. A girl that claims time and attention, though they're claiming concentration and working hours. That's gonna be difficult to have a girlfriend.

2. Think about money first

                                                

Don't put money to the forefront. Yes money is important. But if a girl can't accept you just like you are, then she'll never love you. Some guys think money buys girls. Yes, in certain cases. But not every girl says yes for money. Just like you dream to have a girlfriend, a girl might dream to simply have a boyfriend. So please, don't wait to get the car, the extra income or anything. Love should be natural.

3. Unsocial

                                                              

Don't remain unsocial. The more you meet people, the more you get the chance to meet your chick. So don't be held by the four walls. Hang out more with friends, spend time in the parks, and above all, communicate more. Don't be shy.

4. Fear

                                                                     

That's a very bad feeling that some young men have. They're afraid. Afraid of being rejected, afraid of bad reactions, afraid of looking ridiculous (cause they don't know how to talk to girls). You need to climb that mountain. Do some research, and know how to talk to girls.

5. Fantasy

                                                                    

Get out of your dream, fantasy, movies. Don't keep thinking bout those supernatural girls spinning in your head. You won't get the sense of reality. Move on, and get the real taste of what is a girl in the full meaning. It'll look different.

7. Pornography

                                                                   

That, is really dangerous. Porn has a very bad impact on a young man. No wonder you masturbate when watching it. And it's exactly where the problem is. Masturbation. It keeps you addicted, and prevents you from getting close to girls in real life. So please stop doing what you're doing. Find a girl that fits you, and have real sex.

  

          I hope these 7 points were appealing to you, and that they were addressing directly to some of you. Please leave a comment and thanks for reading.